Perform. From a very small age, deeply imbedded in society, we’ve been performers. How often, from early memories, does one remember being told, “show that dance, artwork piece you made, outfit you put together, song you sing, instrument you play, sport move you do well, you are so beautiful,” fill in the ____... And we realized that the one asking us to perform appreciated us and accepted us in those moments. This created our foundation for self-love, self-worth, and self-acceptance. For when we perform well, we are accepted and people love us.
Ego means low self-esteem. It is a false idea about one’s self. When a subject or person slightly diverges away or says something that doesn’t align with appreciation or acceptance for who we are and how we perform, we are filled with ego. Low self-esteem.
Most operate in this cycle: happiness, and self-worth is dependent on appreciation from others.
Performance is fine. But dependence and happiness cannot be measured by the acceptance we receive for it. When we appreciate and accept others at all times, even their darkest moments - and especially children - that is building self-esteem everywhere. What if we start appreciating others when they are honest, loving, peaceful, and internally powerful rather than performance? Would this shift the current and future generation of ego?
Happiness is unlimited.
This is what I'm simmering on today.
I cried, I begged, I'd even run to the beach on full moons and write in the sand "take me out of this job I hate so much." I'd pity myself, "Why me. What are you teaching me?" Needless to say, I've been there. And then I transitioned. You will too. Here are my two cents.
What do I do if I keep getting my manifestations but they don't stick, or they quickly dissolve, or they aren't quite right?
We filmed the CAP Beauty Q&A! Some answers to your Manifestation Qs!
How to find your own unique patterns in manifestation.
A new Youtube video answering this Q!
If a manifestation filmed group lecture/workshop and a podcast had a baby - twice every month - with your pressing questions dictating the answers and conversation.
How do I deal when I've manifested too much too quickly and it's overwhelming or I feel like it's all going to get taken away.
The ones who see the vision of where you're going far before you do.
Hint, they are the same thing. Let's learn why.
How do I know if it's a test?